What To Bring To Thanksgiving Dinner With Boyfriend's Family

What to Bring to Thanksgiving Dinner with Boyfriend’s Family

Last Updated on May 25, 2024 by Kimberlee Johnson

Attending your boyfriend’s family Thanksgiving dinner can stir up feelings of both excitement and anxiety. I can vividly recall my nerves as I met my then-boyfriend’s family for the first time, eager to make a favorable impression.

And picking the right dish to bring can be a big deal in this situation. Since it’s not just about the food itself; it’s about showing that you care and want to be polite.

Today, I’ll share some practical suggestions for what to bring to Thanksgiving dinner with your boyfriend’s family, making sure you’re warmly welcomed at the table.

10 Things To Bring To Thanksgiving Dinner With Your Boyfriend’s Family

1. Quality Wine Or Whiskey

Bottles and Glasses of Wine

If you’re going to Thanksgiving dinner at your boyfriend’s house, an awesome thing to take is a really good wine or whiskey [1]. 

And if they enjoy wine, a fancy bottle from places like France or California could make dinner even more special. 

“Thanksgiving is the meal we aspire for other meals to resemble.”

Jonathan Safran Foer, American Novelist

Bringing something like this doesn’t only show you have good taste, but also that you’re thankful to be part of their celebration. 

2. A Bottle Of Sparkling Apple Cider

Bringing a bottle of sparkling apple cider to your boyfriend’s family Thanksgiving dinner is a nice idea. This drink has bubbles like soda but is also sweet and tastes like fresh apples. 

Plus, everyone can enjoy it because it doesn’t have any alcohol. It comes in a fancy glass bottle and looks pretty when you pour it into a glass.

3. Homemade Dessert

Bringing a homemade dessert is a way of saying, “I’m here to share in this special day, and I’ve put in some effort to make it even more enjoyable.” 

Whether it’s a delicious pie, a yummy cake, or some tasty cookies, a homemade dessert brings a warm touch to the meal.

4. Fresh Flowers

Fresh flowers added beauty to the table, making the atmosphere feel fresh and vibrant. The lovely colors catch the eye and create a warm and welcoming environment. 

Plus, the flowers smell nice, making the meal even more enjoyable. 

It’s a thoughtful and elegant gesture that will impress my boyfriend’s family and make the dinner even more memorable.

5. Traditional Or Unique Side Dish

Giving a traditional or unique side dish is a chance to share something meaningful, like a family recipe or dish close to your heart. 

Whether a classic favorite or something that reflects your taste, it adds variety and sparks interesting conversations. 

A well-made side dish goes well with the traditional Thanksgiving dishes and lets you share a bit of your background or your unique style. 

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6. Handmade Decor

Diy Wall Mirror

Handmade decor can make Thanksgiving dinner with your boyfriend’s family feel special. 

These could be things you make yourself, like nice table mats, cute candles, or even fun napkin holders. 

“Your presence at Thanksgiving is a gift, and what you bring, whether it’s a dish or a smile, adds to the richness of the occasion.”

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Plus, when they see the pretty crafts, they know you put lots of effort and care into their Thanksgiving dinner. But what to bring to your friend’s house for the first time?

7. Fragrant Candle

A sweet-smelling candle is a great gift to give. The soft light from the burning candle can make their house feel cozy and welcoming. 

Choose a smell that reminds you of fall, like cinnamon, cranberry, or pumpkin. It makes their house smell good and keeps you in their thoughts. 

8. Baking Tools

Bringing baking tools to Thanksgiving dinner with your boyfriend’s family is a smart and kind idea. 

It shows you’re ready to help with baking after the big meal, and everyone can join in the fun of baking together. 

Whether ingredients, baking stuff like spoons and bowls, or your secret family recipes, having these tools makes it easy to bake tasty treats. 

9. Relaxation Basket

The relaxation basket is filled with stuff that helps people relax and feel good. It could have nice-smelling bath soaps, candles, special teas [2], comfy slippers, and a peaceful book. 

Giving them a relaxation basket shows that you’re happy to be invited and care about them. 

10. Food Storage Containers

Plastic Container

Typically, after a big meal, there’s a lot of food left over. Having containers helps to put away extra food easily or share it with people at the dinner. It also helps to keep the kitchen tidy.

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Do you accept gifts for Thanksgiving?

While Thanksgiving Day gifts are not a standard tradition, bringing a gift for your host or hostess is thoughtful. 

It serves as a token of appreciation for their hospitality, the delicious meal, and the chance to share the day with loved ones.

What should I wear to the Thanksgiving meal with my boyfriend’s family?

Choose an outfit that prioritizes comfort without appearing too casual. If you opt for jeans, ensure they are comfortable and easy to wear, especially when visiting your boyfriend’s family. 

Check out these outfit ideas for a Thanksgiving dinner with your boyfriend’s family here.

Final Remarks

When you go to have Thanksgiving dinner with your boyfriend’s family, it’s a chance to make special memories and leave a good impression. 

To start, wear clothes that make you feel comfortable, and be nice to everyone. 

You can make the evening even better by bringing fancy chocolates and nice-smelling candles to make the place cozy. You can even make a cool dish to share and talk about. 

When you mix all these things with being thankful and wanting to make new friends, your Thanksgiving dinner with your boyfriend’s family will be a time everyone remembers.


Kimberlee Johnson
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